Blogger 101: Refresh Your Blogging Attitude

This year marks the 3rd year that I've had this blog. The thought inspired nostalgia. It has been fascinating to look back on the past years that I've had this blog; looking back on my earlier posts, I often cringe and maybe feel slightly embarrassed with some of my posts. But then I give myself a pat in the back because looking back also made me realize how far I've gone. Hey, we all had to start somewhere!

At the same time, the earlier years of blogging provided a wonderful insight into my blogging attitude. I was blogging for me. I wasn't out to impress anyone. There was no inherent pressure at all. Today, the growth of the blog has added pressure of trying to "maintain" the integrity of the brand. There is also an added pressure of coming up with regular posts. Although this pressure has not pushed me to the point of having to take a blog break, it is no doubt a lot of work! 

It is therefore important to constantly refresh your blogging attitude. It makes the experience of blogging novel. It also fights any boredom that might arise from having to constantly brainstorm ideas. 

Step Outside the Comfort Zone. Weariness from blogging can often arise from doing the same thing over and over again. Introduce novelty in your blog, not just in terms of the posts you write but also in the processes you use. Read other fashion bloggers who exhibit style that is totally different from yours or the ones you normally read. This could spark up a new idea that will inspire you to try something different in yours. Your readers will appreciate your effort to change things up.

Share Blogger Love. One of the things I loved about blogging is the opportunity to meet new people outside of geographical boundaries. This is the best thing about the world wide web - I can talk and be friends with someone from halfway across the globe where I live! In fact, there are a few bloggers that I have gotten close to such as Janine from A Blissful Blog (who is based in Cebu), or Lauren from Exploring My Style. I love both of these ladies' styles and the fact that we've had conversations online. I would love to meet them one day!

Stop Comparing. According to a quote I once read, "comparison is the thief of joy". Therefore, do not discredit your own blog success by comparing yourself to another blogger. We all have different timelines to follow in our blog journey. Just because someone got to where you want to be first, it does not mean that you haven't made any progress. Give yourself credit where credit is due. If you look back, you will be inspired to keep pushing forward. 

What other tips can you add to refresh blogging attitude? How do you keep yourself motivated?



  1. It is always fun to look back. Sometimes it *is* a bit embarrassing....but it is pretty awesome too! To think that you have accomplished so much? That is a great feeling. These tips are fantastic :)

  2. Such a great article, I love the sharing blogger love one!

    xx Kelly
    Sparkles and Shoes

  3. You've got this post so on point Abby! And thank you so much for the mention! One of the best things in the blogging industry is indeed meeting new people and becoming friends with them and even learn new things from them. I must admit I did learn a few tricks when it comes to fashion because of you Abby! And yes, I would love to meet you someday! Come here naman sa Cebu one day! <3

    xx, Janine | A Blissful Blog

  4. Stepping out of your comfort zone can be really hard yet it also brings a whole new kinda crowd to your blog

    Candice | Beauty Candy Loves

  5. Great tips! Especially in regards to comparing your blog with others x

    VanessaVonJames | Fashion Blog

  6. So true. I love my blog - I've had it since 2011 and it's been my place to share all my thoughts and feelings for all this time. I stepped away for a little bit last year, came back to it earlier this year. I have about 26 followers and it's a little frustrating at times because of all the work I put into my posts, but then I remember that the blog is my place to go. And whoever reads what I'm writing, it's a great pleasure. :)

  7. Good wisdom. It's hard not to compare, but really important. I love the community I have found!

    Amy Ann
    Straight A Style

  8. These are some truly wise words, Abby. My favorite tip is your point about not comparing yourself to other bloggers. We are all different & if you compare yourself you're only doing yourself harm. Enjoy it for what it is & just do you. Hope you have a happy weekend! :]

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  9. I love meeting & chatting with other bloggers - that is one of my favorite parts of this entire experience!

  10. Really great tips! Three years is pretty amazing. You have a lovely blog. :) We've only just passed our first year on our blog but still loving every minute of it.


  11. It's so true to not compare even though it's difficult. Great tips!

    Thank you for joining TBT Fashion link up and hope to see you next week.



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