Oh Crop!

When I pulled out this criss-cross top off the package from Dresslink, I had to admit I was slightly letdown. It had nothing to do with the fabric or quality. It was the fact that the crop was a little higher than what I would dare to wear. I had to reflect to myself: "Can I pull this off? Do I have the body to wear this top?" I was about to tuck it somewhere in my closet where I would not even dare touch it. But when I had time to reflect some more, I realized that I should empower my body, not shame it. 

Top: Dresslink (c/o) / Jeans: Jag Jeans / Sunnies: Rayban / Shoes: Payless (similar)

I am not saying that body confidence and female empowerment is synonymous to flaunting your body. Rather, you should proudly showcase what you have and what you striven hard to achieve. If you are comfortable doing it and it makes you proud, go for it! I've been constantly pushing myself to workout regularly and stay fit. I am nowhere near my ideal body but every day I work my butt off, I am one step closer to getting there. 

I read one blog a few weeks ago that also touched on this topic. I find it hard to fathom how someone with such high level of success (blogging wise) and a beautiful face and body would be ridiculed for the way she looks or wear her clothes. I guess what I am trying to say is that no matter how good you are and what level of success you have attained, there will always be people who would say something negative about or towards you. Don't let them get to you. 

What are your thoughts on body shaming?